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In this episode, Dr. Marianne Brandon and Dr. Abraham Morgentaler discuss how technology is changing perceptions of cheating and highlight the importance of open conversations to set boundaries and avoid misunderstandings in relationships.
- 0:01 – Defining Cheating: Do You and Your Partner Agree?: The doctors open with the essential question: have you and your partner defined what counts as cheating?
- 5:15 – Virtual Interactions: Is S*xting Cheating?: They discuss how some see virtual interactions as harmless while others consider it a betrayal, showing the gray area technology has created.
- 8:33 – Study Results: Men and Women Cheat Equally: A recent study reveals that both genders engage in indirect behaviors considered borderline cheating at similar rates, challenging assumptions.
- 9:24 – Why Conversations About Cheating Are Essential: Without defining boundaries, partners might unknowingly cross lines, leading to feelings of betrayal that could have been prevented.
- 11:07 – Revisiting Boundaries: How Often Should You Talk?: They recommend checking in regularly, as definitions of cheating can evolve with changes in technology, culture, and individual needs.
Resources
Tang, J. J., Lai, M. H. C., & Yip, P. S. F. (2022). Comparison of indirect and direct approaches to identifying an unfaithful partner. Journal of S*x & Marital Therapy, 48(5), 456–468. https://doi.org/10.1080/0092623X.2022.2039403
